Two Kinds of Pain

Dr Ajibola Awolowo

The dictionary defines pain as a localised or generalised unpleasant bodily sensation that causes mild to severe physical discomfort and emotional distress and typically results from a bodily disorder such as an injury or disease. In simple terms, pain is your body’s way of telling you that you are in mortal danger. Address the cause of the pain and stay safe. Ignore the pain and run the risk of suffering irreversible damage.

Being a medical doctor, I have seen first-hand what pain looks like through the eyes of my patients. Is it the stabbing bone pains that people with sickle cell disease experience when in crisis or the labour pains a woman experiences during child birth? Pain alerts you that something may be out of place and you must seek help urgently.

Diseases with the most devastating consequences are those that do not cause pain in the early stages. Breast cancer for instance. It is “just” a painless lump in the breast that a person can ignore until it has unfortunately spread everywhere which is when the pain begins. Hypertension and diabetes are painless which may make them undetected for many years while they do their damage to one’s organs. It is only when the damage is not just pronounced, but far gone, that pain may become a feature.

You see, even though we do not like to experience pain, it can be a blessing. Pain is protective. We should not seek to suffer pain, but we must not ignore it when we experience it.

I recently watched the movie, “The Equaliser 2”, only for the second or third time. I found the opening scenes to be very instructive. Robert McCall (expertly played by Denzel Washington) told a bad guy, probably before killing him, “There are two kinds of pain in this world. Pain that hurts, pain that alters. Today, you get to choose”.

Those words had me in stitches for a few days. What do they mean and how can this be applied in my everyday life and investing?

First, we must realise that pain is inevitable. We can take all kinds of precautions to prevent it but, inadvertently, pain comes. You can wear the best footwear, walk only on smooth surfaces but there are countless things that can still trip you up. Once you have chosen to interact with the physical elements on the planet, you constantly put yourself in situations that can cause pain. Our attitude should be to reduce the impact of pain in our daily lives rather than to avoid it altogether.

Secondly, paraphrasing Robert McCall, up to a certain degree, we can walk away from pain with only a bruised ego. However, like the proverbial straw that breaks a camel’s back, a fraction of pain higher than this tolerable threshold may result in life changing damage. The severity and consequences of the pain from catching a splinter in your foot is poles apart from that felt if one loses the foot.

Thirdly, I realise that we all have different pain thresholds. A stimulus that will cause one significant distress may only be a niggle to someone else. This fact should make us all appreciate our individuality and uniqueness. The strategy we employ to limit the amount of pain we may suffer should be very different, one person from another. If you have thick skin, you shouldn’t need to wear very heavy armour. David wearing Saul’s armour into battle would have been a huge disadvantage to him.

To put all three points together, pain cannot be avoided but effort should be made to limit our exposure to noxious stimuli, pain can have trivial or disastrous consequences and how much pain is too much pain will differ from person to person. The common-sense response to this should be that having individualised strategies that concentrates efforts at preventing pain with disastrous consequences should be our priority. Since some sort of pain is inevitable, rather than wasting our time avoiding splinters, we should be avoiding amputations.

In investing, the equivalent of physical pain is taking a loss. Just as we do not like physical pain, I am yet to meet an investor that likes losing their capital. However, like it or hate it, losing money is inevitable in investing except you have a crystal ball that predicts the future without fail or you have a time machine that can take you back in time so you buy this week’s best performing stock last week. If you do find such a crystal ball or time machine, do inform me. I also aspire to make consistent profits.

Even the gurus and investing greats do not make money in every investment. There is a popular school of thought that says if you invest in 5 companies, one will do exceptionally better than you every hoped, another will do as well as you thought it would, two will just break even and the last one will lose you money. Once you enter the boxing ring for a bout against Mr Market, be sure you’ll suffer a few blows.

Having accepted that you will get hit by Mr Market at some point during the bout, you must decide which punches you will gladly take and which you must avoid at all costs. You will not be able to block all the jabs of Mr Market but you must try to avoid his famous right hook which has sent other investors to the canvas.

Whenever we discover we’ve made a mistake after buying a company, we should gladly take that 5 or 10% loss that it might cost us to exit that position immediately rather than sit tight and hope to sell only when you break even. Losses hurt but some losses can ruin your investing journey. A 5% loss that simply hurts is different from a 50% loss that can alter your life.

Construct your portfolio in a way that a 20% loss in one position will not set your entire portfolio back by much. Just because it is said that speed kill does not mean you should drive on the express or motor way at 10km/hr. Your being too slow is just as likely to cause you equal harm as your driving too fast. There is a sweet spot for you where safety and speed meet. In your portfolio, do not be over diversified. Do not be over concentrated. Find your sweet spot.

In investing, you must choose your battles wisely. You do not need to get into the ring to spar with Mr Market everyday. On some days, he will be as fit as a fiddle while floating like a butterfly and stinging like a bee. You do not want to fight him on such days as the chances of you evading his right hook will be slim and you’ll be kissing the canvas soon. Fight him only when he is exhausted and tired. You stand a better chance to only suffer a bloody nose then.

You can argue that I am advocating market timing which, I hope we all agree, doesn’t work. No, I am not. Rather, I am recommending a patient approach. The goal should not be to buy only when the market hits the bottom but to buy great companies at fair prices. Only buy once a fair entry price, which was predetermined by a process that you have tried and tested, has been triggered. If it drops further, buy more if you still have gun powder. If you have done the work and like a company at N10 per share, you should like it better at N8 if nothing has changed fundamentally.

We are all unique and have our own peculiarities. Our portfolio size, reserve funds, time horizon and support system from family and friends differs. This means that the frequency and magnitude of losses that would give one person a bloody nose will knock another person flat out. Investing is an individual marathon and not a team sport. Just because another investor took a punch to the midsection and remained in the fight does not mean you will have the same experience. We must tailor our pain mitigating strategies to suit our individual circumstance.

In investing, there are two kinds of pain. One that hurts and one that alters. To have a bloody nose while walking out of the ring or to be sprawled out on the canvas having received a fatal blow by Mr Market. The choice is yours!

Dr Ajibola Awolowo can be reached via this email: valuenigeriawithajibola@yahoo.com

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