Catherine Oyewole
Life unfolds through diverse moments, and our capacity to perceive them accurately serves as a guiding force, unveiling the essence of our true selves.
Each beautiful stage comes with its share of challenges, often feeling like an orchestrated play of positives and negatives. It’s tempting to question if an unseen force orchestrates these moments with a remote control, causing occasional frustration. The persistent, silent plea for assistance directed at no one in particular brings discontent and a lingering bitterness associated with all things troublesome. What direction should we take from this point onward?
People grappling with depression or suicidal thoughts are not necessarily inherently sad; rather, they struggle to cope with life’s adversities.
Recognizing that life isn’t a constant bed of roses is crucial. The spectrum of experiences, from good to bad and ugly, shapes our appreciation for the positive moments.
Handling the negatives involves acknowledging their existence without pretending otherwise. Many live a facade, conforming to societal expectations, but it’s essential to confront reality. Don’t evade pain; instead, take charge, tapping into your inherent problem-solving capacity to navigate challenges.
Changing the narrative is vital on the journey to success, where setbacks are inherent. Negatives often pave the way for a triumphant conclusion. The path to success is lined with obstacles meant to deter and distract. Refuse to succumb to these distractions, stay focused on your goals, and persevere through the thorns and thistles on your way to success.
Focus on eliminating the negatives rather than validating them, while preparing for a more positive outcome.
Permit positives to proceed; and prevent negatives from lingering.